I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 3 months now. He is 22 and I’m 20. When we first started talking, it was through text messaging. The only reason why is because we told each other that we just don’t like talking on the phone. We still told each other that we like each other and that we enjoy spending time together. He does call me every now and then, but it’s never usually a long conversation, and it’s just to talk about something concerning us (never bad things though). I have met his family a few times, stayed over at his a few times, and he has been talking to his friends about me. I like this because it doesn’t make me feel like I’m being kept a secret. I have been told that having a text-only relationship can prevent intimacy in a relationship. Is this always the case? My boyfriend and I just don’t really like talking on the phone, we just aren’t phone people. Does anyone have any advice?
Guys hate talking on the phone, that’s just the way it is. I’m the same way and I’m sure every guy out there can vouch, there is nothing fun about talking on the phone. Texting we can handle, but those 2 hour phone convo’s make us wanna put a bullet in our head. So it’s nothing personal at you, he just doesn’t like the phone.
honestly, i hate talking on the phone too.
me and my boyfriend didn’t start talking on the phone and having regular conversations until about 2 or 3 months into our relationship. and it was only because we were forced too because we have a long distance relationship. we would always text or talk online through aim. And to this day, if we have something serious to talk about, we always send each other a email. It’s easier for us to gather our thoughts that way.
don’t worry. everyone is different and if it works for you, then so be it! Talk on aim…talk via text! as long as you are communicating, it shouldn’t matter! good luck!
My fiance and that i almost under no circumstances communicate on the telephone. We text fabric and notice one yet another whilst it works out, in spite of the undeniable fact that it does not appear as if too lots of a substantial deal. some human beings do basically unlike speaking on the telephone. If each thing else interior the relationship looks great, do no longer worry approximately it.
naaaa, u guys r fine. soooooo many guys hate talking on the phone. i hate it too, and like the girl be4 me said, the only reason i do it is cuz my bf n i have a long distance relationship, but even then we dont talk on the fone much cuz he hates it. and ur rite, messages do give u a better chance to collect ur thots
to each is own, hoo cares wut ppl say, do wut works for u. and the good thing is, he doesnt like the phone either! so thats perfect!