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The only way to have a friend is to be one. How to be a true friend?


Can you be my friend, true friend? Who are all my friends… how do I know that you are my great friend.

i agree… only a true friend can receive true friends. If u r honest to other people, they would be honest to u too. A true friend knows u more than anything. A true friend understands u the best. And if a person can be a true friend, they will also receive true friendship because when u r honest to a person, that person would melt down in front of ur honesty. Like they say &quot: true friendship works like eye and hand, when the hand hurts, eye cry. When the eyes cry, hands wipe.&quot: Not everyone has the same personality or qualities or behavior. We are all different in personality. But a true friend is someone who can accept all that difference and still love u for who u r. When others criticize u and make fun of u, there would always be that one shoulder where u could cry on, there would be that one person who listens to u and tell u that it is ok and that person would be that true friend.

No i can’t be ur friend. I think i have a higher position that right now and i wouldn’t want to loose that. I would like to be ur sis, a true sis ~~~~~~ How do u know that i am ur great sis ? lol !!!!

If i fight with u, if i argues with u, if i melt down faster, if i make u upset, if take too much freedom from u, if i make fun of u then that means that i am ur sis !!! I mean…. a true sis !!! I value siblingship more than friendship ! Siblingship takes u a step higher ! U can fight with the person today and still go and talk to that person like nothing ever happened.

So i love the place u give me in life ! Where i can say that i am gentleman’s little sis and there is a beauty to that !!! Don’t u think ? !! I am ur true sis !!! And sibling ship to me includes friendship !!! A true friendship that goes beyond everything !!!! I am forever ur true sis and i will be, as long as u accept me as one !!!!

True friendship involves relationship. Those mutual attributes we mentioned above become the foundation in which recognition transpires into relationship. Many people say, &quot:Oh, he’s a good friend of mine,&quot: yet they never take time to spend time with that &quot:good friend.&quot: Friendship takes time: time to get to know each other, time to build shared memories, time to invest in each other’s growth.

Trust is essential to true friendship. We all need someone with whom we can share our lives, thoughts, feelings, and frustrations. We need to be able to share our deepest secrets with someone, without worrying that those secrets will end up on the Internet the next day! Failing to be trustworthy with those intimate secrets can destroy a friendship in a hurry. Faithfulness and loyalty are key to true friendship. Without them, we often feel betrayed, left out, and lonely. In true friendship, there is no backbiting, no negative thoughts, no turning away.

True friendship requires certain accountability factors. Real friends encourage one another and forgive one another where there has been an offense. Genuine friendship supports during times of struggle. Friends are dependable. In true friendship, unconditional love develops. We love our friends no matter what and we always want the best for our friends. =)

I know that I am a great friend. I never think bad things about her, she is just so lovely in nature &amp: we just like the same things. I never ever think – is it her turn to ring me – you just ring when you want. We have been best friends since aged 5 years and now in our 40’s.

i would love to be your true friend gentleman….it would be only my pleasure if i can be one.

true friend…its the bonding b/w 2 big words….

true- someone true to God and himself…..someone loyal…someone with a pure and good intention…..someone who won’t do any harm even if he/she could have gained something out of it.

friend- a companion…a listener…..who will be there for u anytime…..who will praise u for ur achievements without any tinge of jealousy…who will scold u for ur errors and try to correct u (thank u for doing that ! ) instead of saying yes and no only to please u….who will accept u as u r…with ur good and bad points…and try to remove the bad ones.

i heard a beautiful statement recently- a friend is someone u can call at 2:00 am of night without hesitation if u r in need !!!

soooo…i would love to be ur friend and always try to be a true one….

well..i don’t know how to make u believe that…i’ll just try to maintain my truthfulness…hope u will start beleiving in the process gradually…. 🙂

since u have asked this beautiful question..let me also take this opportunity to tell u here…that u r most welcome to approach me whenever u need to tell me anything…i’ll try to help u in any and every way i can. 🙂

the only way to be a true friend is to first see them as a true friend. you’ll know when u have a true friend.

I do not think that you &quot:got&quot: this quote at all…in order to have any of the things you have asked about you first have to be this to others…then you will know these things without a doubt…
As for as asking people who are unknown to step up and be anything to you…well that is asking for trouble because you have no clue as to the charecter of anyone that is unknown to you…they could be the greatest people in the world or they could be serial killers and baby rapers

I don’t think I can be a great friend of yours through Y!A, lol…

a great friend or a true friend is someone who accpets you, who wants to be your friend and not leave you when they meet new friends

Be trustful, help when a friend is in need and stuff like that. For some people these things mean that you’re a nice guy. For some others mean that you’re stupid and that they can take advantage of you.
Now, you decide.

I don’t promise in relationships because if promise is broken it will hurt them deeply,…so i don’t promise to be a true friend or even a freind….it can be built over the years and can grow strong each time when we are for each other….nurished with honesty and truthfulness,help them and support them if they are right,show all ur unconditional love,care and affectionand love them as one among ur family members, retaining their dignity and respect,forgive all their unintentional/intentional mistakes,hug them with your warmth feelings,understanding their feelings and emotions and respecting the same,accept the way they are..teach them if any habit is annoying others by not hurting their feelings….helping them when they are in need of you(at least try)..praying to god and wishing them always good…Money ,status,ego should never be part of your freindship.Learn to be proud of them and encourage them to be a achiever in life…motivate your freind…never underestimate them…constantly working towards a relationship and dedication will surely bring in some wonderful relationships which will last for life…remove jealousy,hatredness,angry,prestige,ego…..
This is how i follow my freindship…and so does my freinds
and u will see some wonderful creation of god…
But analyse the right person….Support them Morally and never try to control them….if they don’t want you as a freind at any given point of time…u should let them go with whole heartedly never wish them bad luck…but they come back realising their mistakes with good intention accept them back if not think over again…..

These are all my exp and my views….it’s not meant to hurt anyone and their feelings…

Money should never be the basis of freinship…

A friend is someone who you feel complete with someone that no matter what you never feel like you r the one giving and not getting.

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